http://www.aes.org/publications/standards/
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"AES14-1992 (r2004): AES standard for professional audio equipment -- Application of connectors, part 1, XLR-type polarity and gender"
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downloadable PDF (Courtesy Copy)
Set your self up an invoicing address (don't worry the invoice is 0 and you won't be sent owt...)
Go to your download basket after you have "bought" it - and it's there..
But... no offically printing allowed.... the print buttion is turned off..