hi jeroddumas,
i checked my Newark inovice for my OEP order and they didn't charge me for shipping (just $3.34 tax). i may have gotten free shipping on that one from a e-coupon they sent me so i don't know about shipping cost. you might save a bit if you get it from canford UK but you'll have to phone your order in (all international orders are by phone) and it might take a while for shipping (then again Newark has a 19 day lead time on OEPs since they get it from the UK).
redhouse, you can get the OEPs from either Farnell or Canford in the UK. if your relatives live there they'll need to pay VAT(?) as well. don't know if it will save you any.
regards,
grant