The SSM chips are convenient to use - as they include the soft switching to ensure clickless switching - which can be very important and sometimes difficult to implement using DG series and discrete FET's.
If using relays - and they are still very useful for signal switching - go for Telecom approved types - they are inexpensive as they are made in huge volumes, normally have gold contacts - and are reliable....
I like the BT 47 type, which is available from Omron, NEC, Fujitsu, Siemens and many other manufacturers - standard PCB pin outs and coil voltages.
Sometimes a pair of genuine change over contacts is useful - if using both sets, a very high isolation audio switch can be made. Off really is off....!
JG