Unfortunatelly you can't measure the polarisation voltage directlly on capsule because it's also Hi Z (too much for DMM's) but you can measure it before the resistor. Parasite capacitacne can be ommited if your leads and hi Z components are not too close. Especially to the GND. Sorry, it's hard to explain this in short sentence but you can search around and read about other DIY experiences.
At the end, if the diference is in the capsules, you can try to swap them and figure out the problem.
I MAY have it. But I wanted to check with the forum first...
I opened up both mics again just to visually inspect.
There is a jumper on the main PCB labeled 'IS' or '1S' (just below the low cut jumper).
In one mic it's jumpered and on one it's open.
I can't seem to find info on the function of this jumper (although I vaguely remember reading about it when I built them).
What does that jumper do? Could it cause the 3db difference?
Thanks everyrone for your help! Stay Safe.
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I found the info. I assume this could certainly cause one mic to be hotter, especially when close up on the mic. I'm going to open them both and test again.
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IS is jumpered for default configuration , you will get more bass response and proximity with the jumper off..."