fuzzmeasure
http://supermegaultragroovy.com/products/FuzzMeasure/It´s not a real time but for measuring THD it do nice plots for 2nd and 3rd harmonics, nice impulse, etc... it runs a sweep
Smaart 7 also have some nice things but more for calibration like live aplications.
Acoustic toolbox is other option, not so nice, but it may like you better than me...
Spectre is other option out there.
I use fuzzmeasure for fast measuring, one sweep (or a couple with average, and with or without correction so you can measure your sound converters alone) and it gives a lot of data and plots... phase (normal, minimun, delay group) freq response, thd, impulse, RT (20/30/ETD) if you are with a room, waterfall, etc... For RTA Smaart 7 is what I choose, multiple simultaneous responses and nice, for filters and EQ I really like it.
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