Just to add to the conversation, I've been using SMD parts (mainly resistors and capacitors 1206 or 805 ) since 2 or 3 years and I must say it is very easy to solder/desolder them, it gets a little harder to do with ics and soil packages but it is manageable.
I usually design my SMD footprints with longer pads, in fact I have designed some pcbs with vertical resistors THT footprints so that I can solder both THT resistors as well as SMD 805 resistors. it works with ceramic capacito with a 2,5 mm footprint and 805 SMD capacitors.
Paolo