> really attempting to take in an unhealthy amount of information
Most people would rather talk than listen. Listen to others talk, or listen critically and honestly to the dang speaker.
In digital computing there is a joke: Write-Only Memory (i.e. you can never read back what you stored). The converse would be true Read-Only Memory (reading something that has never been written to). Beware of minds which are Read Only. (There is computer "ROM" but they really mean it was written once then read-only forever.)
> sensibly priced electrolytic caps for coupling and bypass
Use the ordinary Panasonics as sold by DigiKey and others. They really are very good caps.
In some places, for some ears, there may be a "better" cap. That's something you will have to find for YOURself, because there is very little consensus about what cap is "better". In a few cases, audiophiles have selected "worse" caps to "flavor" the sound (or disguise complementary flaws).
Yes, the Panasonics are "too cheap". But I sense your position is like learning cooking, only a few hundred gourmet meals made. While a 40-year chef may use greek salt and moravian lamb, he would advise a beginner to use any plain fresh fault-free salt and lamb, and concentrate on the assembly and presentation. Panasonic (and several other name-brands like Sprague and Illinois) are fresh fault-free salt.
> incredible how many capacitors are being churned out into this world..
Everything interesting is AC.
Most fun AC stuff needs some dull DC to hold it up.
So we need lots of parts to work-different for AC or DC: caps or chokes.
Caps are cheaper than chokes.
We have LOTS of toys. (TVs, DVDs, cellfones, thermostats, PCs, cars.........)
We use LOTS of caps.
When you make one toy, it is $10 for parts and $100 for labor (if you value your time).
When you make a million toys, the labor gets a lot of practice. You can get high production rates from ignorant workers (or robots) in low-wage lands. Then parts costs dominate the budget. Then the Factory Buyer is told to look for better price. If the order is large enough, the major cap-makers will run a custom value or size or voltage; also every minor cap-maker will be pitching a lower bid to get work. So between the too-many types in a single company's line, and too-many companies fighting for market crumbs, the choice is mind-blowing.
DigiKey, Panasonic. Find a shape and size, appropriate value and voltage, check the temperature (105C near large tubes or heatsinks). Get on with life.
Yes, if you make a career of cap-shopping, you can get the "same" cap for a penny less, or a looser leakage spec for 2 cents less.... in DIY, that kind of decision making keeps you away from the Main Point (music).