> vias in audio circuit boards are a no-no.
No.
Though in a lot of audio work, if you can't lay out the audio path without a lot of crossovers, you have probably designed something too complicated. Graphic-EQs generally can't be laid-out strictly 2-D; but then, they ARE "too complicated for best sound", they are a hack to improve bad sound. Many mike preamps sit naturally on a 2-D plane.
OTOH, better a couple vias than running an audio path the long way all around the bushes and back to avoid a via.
> use a 2mm pad w/0.8mm hole and solder in a piece of wire from both sides.
Bob Pease, a man with some practical experience, stopped using soldered-in eyelets because thermal expansion sooner or later tore the foil off the board. Seems to me that wires have the same problem, only less. Maybe not enough to matter in shirt-sleeve environment. (Pease often had to test to extreme temperatures.)
Of course home-brew vias have problems. And I think a proper via is "plated-through", not expecting the wave-solder bath to wick-up into the hole.