The outputs shields are most of the time grounded on the other side of the cable, I mean on the other equipment ground you are connecting it to. If you ground it on this side also, you are just contributing for one more ground loop in your system.
Well, about grounding the unit, that´s what I do:
first filter cap very close to the star, conected to it by a fat copper wire or bar, or anything alike... Same thing with the rectifier I do.
Then, get separate as possible ground points in the circuit to your star ground. Most of the time, if it´s tube, you can use one ground wire for each tube stage. If it´s SS and pcb, most boards have their star point already in the board, so, just connect this star in the board to the star near the cap. All other grounds, like phantom and any other audio grounds you might have outside the board, like transformers or networks, you should also connect to this star near the first filetr cap.
Then, create a point in the chassis for you safety ground. Some people do it near the inputs, I do it near the IEC connector and I do not have any problems. Now, connect the safety pin on the IEC to this point and also connect shields to this point, including transformer shields and cable shields. In fact, the shields could also be connected directly to the chassis in any point, so sometimes I creat a ground lug in the chassis for each shield. It really doesn´t matter at all for me.
Now, you connect your star near the rectifier and the first filter cap to this point in the chassis where safety ground id, but do it throught a 10ohms resistor. Some people like to use fat 10watts types. I don´t hear a difference. Most of the time I even use 2w carbon types, just because I do have a bunch of these. Also, some likes to use a choke instead of a resistor, and I´ve even seen a choke in parallel with a low value resistor.
Heaters and relays PSUs could be kept separate from your audio circuit ground, and you could use separate star point for those, and then connect to the safety point throught another resistor, but I generally just connect it to the safety point all together, with no extra star.
Phantom grounds should be kept together with the main audio circuit.
For bigger power amp circuits, there are better schems, and more caution should used.
I´ve read many grounding articles, and there´s no easy way. You have to experiment for yopurself. I don´t know if I do it the right way or the best way, but that said, my units are really quiet, and seems to be safe. So... I keep doing it his way. I suffered many moons with noise and hum until I got my way of doing it, and really, I got enought of this. Now, I´have some TUBE mic preamps with 85dB gain, and still quiet :green:
By the way:
http://www.aikenamps.com/StarGround.html
http://www.geofex.com/Article_Folders/stargnd/stargnd.htm