> different plate resistance than the 6SL7: very surprising & a poor assumption on my part. I was looking for gain.
Voltage gain, current gain?
There's no free lunch. The 6SN7 stayed in production for a reason. 6SL7 has high voltage gain in high impedances. The 6SN7 has decent voltage gain and more current, suitable for lower impedances.
And here's a guide. Wideband audio transformers are not high impedance loads. 10K or 20K is as high as they really get. And before resistance-coupling got common, everything was transformer interstage. And everything was "General Purpose Triode", a family which extends to 12AU7 and 6SN7. Mu is a lot more than unity, but kept fairly small so that plate impedance is not high; specifically, so that audio transformers work fine.
> using Dukane octal ITs
They are not awful (though the ART mike input stage IS clearer). Balance is not a goal. Wire just like DuKane did, ground and one grid. Quick and dirty small studio work, take the output unbalanced. The DuKane tranny has high voltage gain, the load is only 10K-22K, so use low gain low-Z 6SN7 with 10K plate resistor and 1K cathode resistor from a 150V DC supply (120VAC winding). You get 1:10 in the iron, 1:6 in the vacuum, gain of 60 or 36dB. Which may be "too much" so omit the cathode cap (save a buck). Gain around 30dB. Output cap has to be 200V 0.5uFd for respectable bass.
> ANYTHING that boosts the signal ...gets him excited about how much better it sounds.
Anything boosted always sounds better. He'll get over that illusion.... in several decades. Maybe. I still get fooled by small level differences.