Do not use electrolytic caps, you need good tantalum ones.
I use the microphone parts capsules and they sound more than adequate.
The transformer is pretty important, 10:1 I think I used if memory serves.
These are nice and small and work well
https://www.ebay.com/itm/111683319855
The actual headbasket is quite important, I made my bodies from brass, wasn't all that difficult, but I did try in a normal style head basket and I didn't like the sound.
I got the socket off ebay and most of the other bits, you'll just have to be resourceful and do a lot of searching.
Good luck.