This will give you some ballpark figures on what you can expect with absorption.
Porous Absorber Calculator.
35kg rockwool is about 10,000 Pa*s/m². Where at your depth of panel a glass wool can be around 2000-5000 Pa*s/m² at a certain depth it is said to have better absorption than heavier materials and I agree with this. There are loads of threads on Gearspace about this.
I've been in your situation where I've tried to target nulls and I ended up spending a lot more time and money and in my case the improvements were noticeable but nowhere near what I wanted.
In my opinion, the material you are using is not absorbing as much or as low as you need. If you swapped out your rockwool for a lower-density material even at your current thickness I think your waterfall would end up looking better than leaving the rockwool in place and trying to target your nulls.
don't bother straddling with a low-density material. You are better just putting as much as you can in without air gaps.
If you are considering spending more time and money making targeted traps. I would urge you to try a low Pa*s/m² material in the traps first.
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