I have Hfe on my meter, but not Vbe.
How close do you try to match the Hfe? Within what %?
On most digital multimeters there is a diode test function, that shows the forward voltage.
If your meter does not have a diode test, connect the B-E junction of the transistor under test in series with a resistor of 10K.ohm to a voltage of 10 Volts or so and measure the voltage over the junction. (ca. 600-700 mV)
Keep the voltage constant and avoid temperature changes between transistors under test, since the temperature has an influence on the B-E forward voltage.
I first select transistors in groups: good, maybe usable and bad. (Value too far off)
Then I select the ones from the group 'good' for the best match. The closer they match, the better!
(If you want, I can send you a close matched pair of hand-selected low-noise PNP transistors, I have some selected pairs here.)