Ramping up of the B+ supply is certainly a way of delaying the voltage applied to the tubes, but I understood what you meant.Bibi were talking about a gradual ramping of of the HT supply not a delay ,
what tube amps do you know of that are reliable with solid state rectification and no standby ?
I'm not sure your question is serious actually. There are innumerable hi-fi amps, test equipment and studio gear built since the advent of solid state rectification that don't have reliability issues and they aren't built with a standby switch. You are trying to prove is that there is a problem that certainly would have been known when tubes were the only method of amplification readily available yet designers and manufacturers have always avoided using a simple switch that would have "significantly increased" the life span of the tubes. This seems such a strange hill to die on.
In fact, if anything, I would say that I have seen more problems associated with standby switches that were incorrectly implemented, solid state rectification or not. The reissue Vox amplifiers spring to mind, the standby switch actually stresses the rectifier tube enough to significantly decrease its life.