> parametric EQs ... compact enough to use in an existing channel strip.
I mostly agree with TedF. You want one good parametric EQ in the studio to fix big problems, but putting one on every channel should not be necessary (except for sales), costs a fortune (especially at 1-off or even 8-of prices), and invites abuse and an ugly mix.
It is also a tool for filter-geeks, not musicians. Falling in love with beautiful filter curves does not improve the music.
Yes, I know the ParaEQ was developed by an excellent audio producer. It is possible to not abuse one, even make music with it, sure. But on the list of things that I "must" DIY, ParaEQ falls far-far down the list. Lower even than Graphic EQ, which is a nightmare.
> simple 'Baxendall' shelving curves, with possibly some low 'Q' mids added.
Right. Maybe a 3-position switch to change the cap in each band.