AnalogPackrat
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Self-motivation primarily comes from within. Yes, others can inspire and encourage which is very important, but the will to succeed, to keep on keepin' on, is an internal flame. Sometimes it dims to pilot light level and must be rekindled.It's not a lack of seriousness, it's a lack of hope, or perhaps emotional energy.
Also a problem. But like motivation, caring (in the anti-apathy sense) comes from within.People became careless when they're apathetic because, well, they don't care.
And it wasn't ever like that before? Life is full of challenges. As my grandfather used to say: "if it is to be it is up to me." That's the attitude of someone who understands that effort is required to make things happen, whether it's learning a new skill, finding a better paying job, raising children, helping your neighbor/community, or whatever.Lack of upwards mobility is a serious and worsening issue in the current economy.
We have artificially promoted emotion above reason and replaced actual community with shallow social media pablum.Work ethic has its limits, especially in the current emotional and social landscape.
Eh? Productivity is higher primarily due to more technological leverage (automation, mass production, etc.) not because people are working harder. Who is taking community (other than Zuckerberg)? That's a choice people make.People are expected to be more and more productive, as always, while also having more and more taken from them in terms of community.
I agree here. Smart phones are addictive and, at least with the current applications/uses, appear to be a net negative influence.People's nervous systems are shot from the constant and unavoidable overload if stimulus too, IMO.
I think there are multiple factors underlying this problem, the largest being not allowing kids to fail or experience negative consequences of decisions or actions they make or do. Failure is a necessary component of life and of learning. If you shield kids from it until they get their first job* at 22, they have not developed any way to process actual challenges with negative outcomes. They "lose hope" or become apathetic.I don't think we quite understand what that means yet or what it's doing. If huge portions of young people are suddenly having difficulty withstanding life stress, my money is on something happening to them, rather than it being any kind of lack of resolve on their part.
That is a disturbing trend (access to the entire internet by children). No surprise, I blame parents.People say Millennials and younger are sheltered, but I think it's the exact opposite. Everyone is seeing so much all the time. It's a lack of shelter. I saw my first murder when I was about 9 or 10 years old, and so did most of the people I know. It's an inside joke with people 30 and younger like "What age were you when you discovered liveleak?"
But then there are farm kids who saw the cycle of life including butchering of animals for food, predation, etc. and weren't affected like that. Along the same lines, I still remember being 5 or 6 and hearing that one of my classmates had died. He'd fallen out of a moving car somehow.
It isn't just kids being impacted. I see a reduction in attention span in other adults and myself. I resisted getting a smart phone until 2012, so I definitely felt the change from the outside looking in for the first few years as nearly everyone else started using them c.2006-08, especially in silicon valley where I was at the time.I think the human mind isn't built for processing this much information all the time, and the adaptations that young people develop to allow that might literally result in reduced ability to perform other functions.
How so?I think a lot of young people just don't communicate with older generations because they don't think they'll understand. The not only psychological but spiritual effect of growing up in the internet age is difficult to convey to older people.
That's an interesting insight. And frightening.Seeing the computer not as a communication device but a vessel for the spirit or self, integrating it as a fully natural method of not just communication but presence. I think younger people have a sense of self and personhood that is built, from the ground up, totally differently from older generations.
I can understand that given the addictive nature of social media. Is there any way to deprogram this? Actual socialization is also on the decline and that is not going to lead anywhere good, IMO.From some perspectives (including mine, tbh) in a way that's a net negative. It is an exhausting way to exist. It leaves little left over for participating in the world.
Interesting, but sad and disturbing.