What was the work schedule? I guess part-time?
When I started as a janitor I worked 2 hours after school, 3-5pm every weekday. For the first month of summer we worked full 40hr weeks completely cleaning the school before the fall session started. Stripping all floor wax, rewaxing, polishing. Cleaning graffiti off of inside and outside of lockers, washing all windows inside and out, power washing carpet, etc. Other friends worked fast food, landscaping, retail sales at the mall or other stores. I did retail one Christmas and spring break--stocking shelves, cleaning up spills, helping customers, running a cash register. 8 hour days.
I put several hundred bucks in CDs at 12-15% interest. Helped pay for college. While in college and grad school I worked every summer. I got jobs doing PC programming ('84-85), drafting ('86), Unix programming in C ('87), more drafting then PC prigramming ('88-89), then was an EE lab TA during grad school and all summers ('88-91).
What's the logic here? Things seem a bit contradicting here. Was it better or worse, make up your mind.
People were mostly more capable despite the lack of the common luxuries we now enjoy. Or because of that lack. Good times, weak men, etc.
You mean like everyday
?
Sometimes. Having spent many years in the semiconductor capital equipment industry when it was fairly cyclical, we endured layoffs, or in the case of my employer, forced time off and/or temporary 10-15% pay cuts for several months. I had many high-stress jobs in my career. Few regrets.
I mean, I may have , I dunno.
As long as the person preaching is older then me, right?
Well, if you view someone trying to pass along a little hard-earned wisdom as "preaching" you may not be ready to "get it."
I can feel it I am getting on your nerves, so I will stop talking shortly, but I will add this.
No, you aren't. I've had similar interactions with younger people before.
My grandpa is 90+ and still alive, and I love him dearly, and we have a honest and lovely relationship. He is sort of care-free, chill guy, very competent but in a "work smart, not hard" way. He spent his entire career working at a gas station, filling up gas from 6-7 in the morning until 3-4 in the afternoon. Occasionally, I remember he would pick me up after school, so he didn't work really late. My grandma worked behind a production line in a factory producing ignition sparks for the automotive industry. Despite minimal education, no side businesses, and no investments, they managed to build a house that, by today's standards, could be classified as bigger/better than average. Additionally, they built a weekend retreat cottage.
Glad you've had a lot of time to spend with him. One of my grandfathers died before I was born and the other did his best to make up for that. Alzheimer's complications got him a few days before my 40th birthday. He taught me a lot in those four decades and I'm thankful for it every day.
He and my grandmother were married right after Pearl Harbor when they were eighteen. No big wedding. The ceremony was in the living room of their church parsonage. They had $12 between them. My grandfather had quit school after 8th grade to help his mother farm vegetables for a living. After many decades and some hard times they owned a nice home on 22 acres, a vacation home in the mountains, and raised three children. Retired in their 60s and had many more happy years together. They
earned it.
Regarding my partner and me, both of us earn above-average salaries. I'm an engineer at an consulting firm supporting the petroleum industry, while she works for a major conglomerate in the pharmaceutical field. We consider ourselves moderately well-educated, diligent workers (especially my partner, she is giving it 99,8% everyday), and fortunate to hold jobs that are above the average in terms of income.
We rent a flat.
Depending on where you live, it can be hard. I was in the SF Bay area from late '93 until '21. Home prices were just out of reach and the dotcom boom was cranking them higher. I was stupid and hard-headed. Wanted a house, not a condo. Should have got a condo for a few years then moved up. My ex and I combined our savings and her 5 year gain on a condo to buy our first home. I was 32. We took on a jumbo 30 year mortgage at 7.25% with 20% down. Put a ton of sweat equity into it over the years.
It doesn't bother me. We're still at the beginning, and it might be a regional or socio-geographical specificity, but it's an undisputed fact.
What undisputed fact? Other generations had their obstacles to overcome as well.
Feel free to interpret this however you wish.
I'm just trying to understand your point of view and maybe impart some useful information.