sahib
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Frankly, I don't associate honor killings with the middle east, but with Turkey. Nothing to do with Islam. Everything to do with tradition.
Your second sentence is correct but you have a lot to learn on the first one.
Honour killing is a middle-eastern culture.
Of course today's modern Turkey has borders with middle-east, and has a population with middle-eastern heritage, , but honour killing is alien to Anatolian Turkish culture. For example, although I was born and brought up in Istanbul my parents are/were originally from Northern Turkey-Trabzon where there is no such thing as honour killing of daughters. More like shotgun wedding. You held my daughter's hand? You are looking at two things. Either the barrel of my shotgun or wedding. Even that is an old tradition and does not exist now. In Anatolian culture girls running away with boys was something that even songs were written about. But honour killing still exists in societies with middle-eastern heritage.
I used to live amongst Turkish immigrants in Antwerp. Nice people, except for the grey wolves. My neighbour's kids accepted 5€ bills as a gift from a gentleman in a grey suit. The neighbour told me he was afraid to refuse. Resisting the grey wolves in that neighbourhood was very bad for your health. The only ones who opposed the grey wolves, were people from Kurdish decent. That usually ended in fights and worse. Antwerp police had no clue how to deal with this.
Grey Wolves (Bozkurtlar) is a nationalist group and certainly running against them could damage your health. I know that all the way from '70s.. But running against Kurdish groups could also damage your health. So, I am not sure why you brought up these two political factions.
But what pisses me off immensely is that, at least it happened a few times here in the press, when there is honour killing or something in that line, suddenly the persons involved are Turkish, but when there is some political agenda then they are oppressed Kurdish. I am afraid to say that the honour killing also exists in some Kurdish societies. My aunt (my mum's sister) was married to a Kurd and I have three half Kurdish cousins, though as far as I know they do not posses such notion. Besides, a thing like that would not pass through my aunt, and one would certainly not like to run against her.