ruffrecords said:
The tax authorities are one thing but family is another. I lent my sister a deposit on a house in France on the understanding it would be repaid a couple of months later following the sale of her own house in the UK. In the end she got less for her own house than expected but was 'committed' to the purchase in France. So everyone got paid except me. That was three years ago and I still have not got my money back. I had to employ a debt collector force her into action and he gets a 12% cut of the proceeds.
Cheers
Ian
"Money lent to a friend must be recovered from an enemy"
That must have been difficult. I hope you and your sister can reconcile eventually.
That kind of sucks where you try to help somebody and it ends up that way. I helped a friend who started his own business, I didn't lose as much money as he did, but i lost some money and a friend. While I would repeat the good advice when lending money, if you can't avoid lending completely, document the loan with a signed contract so there is no question about what the terms are for payback. The signed loan contract was very helpful when I had to refresh my friend's memory.
JR