Wouldn't ya know it? I was one decimal place off in my mental arithmetic in my last post.
Of course, this didn't dawn on me until I'd powered off the computer for the night and had gone to bed. Anyway, I corrected the post: it should have read 180 ohms where it said 1.8K.
You can, as you surmised, try a variable shunt--and, when you find the most acceptable compromise between crosstalk, loss and noise, replace it with a fixed resistor. Here's one to try:
I would not recommend increasing the buss loss beyond 40dB because at that point, you're probably hovering perilously close to your noise floor.
To JUM: I was going to suggest going to active summing, too, but if I recall correctly that would entail a complete redesign of the master fader arrangement Dave is using. Dave, please correct me if I'm wrong.
I believe the bussed power and grounds could be a source of at least some of the x-talk. Taking the V+, V- and power and signal grounds from each card to one central point would probably improve matters. Adding R-C decoupling to the power feed of each card is
highly recommended; you could even tack the components on the card connectors if you wanna give it a whirl without ripping the mixer apart. As a matter of fact, you might wanna try that before you even start playing around with the mix buss. It "couldn't hoit" since decoupling is just good practice anyway. Use 33 ohms in each leg (which will drop only 2V or so at max current draw) and at least 1000uF/25V.