Ok,
i figured it all at the end.
I would like to leave some hints to absolute beginners like me:
symptoms were crazy meter, unresponsive threshold pot and control board, makeup gain not linear etc. A mess.
When my troubles occurred i had several reports about "check for shorts" since the situation appeared like major faults in wiring or soldering but i followed strictly the book.
No errors.
I did it anyway, probing, removing molex etc.
Nothing.
So i started thinking about blown/wrong components etc.
Not the case.
A "good soldering" is not only the precision of "points" but also a psycho level of cleaning the pcb after.
I did a "quite good" job (but not enough), used flux, heat probed station, good tin compound and great care with handling, no blobs, no cold joints etc. Did some reflows thinking about a bad joint.
Nothing.
After the soldering i cleaned the pcb with 95% iso alcohol and rubbed away the flux with a toothbrush and some paper and cue tips to dry some areas.
Troubles... "check for shorts".
So a step up i started looking at the soldering points one by one with a 10X loupe glass.
Nothing... "check for shorts".
So a step up i started looking with 10X on a light source (with light from behind the pcb) to have a greater contrast of traces and joints with transparency.
Nothing... "check for shorts".
Yesterday night i used a 25 to 200X usb microscope, for fun, to look around and noticed some dark gunk totally invisible at lower magnification with a glass in some spots. So today i did a pass of Philips 339 CCS and seriously brushed all the joints with a brass brush.
Guess what?
The unit works perfectly.
Probably a thin debris was sticking somewhere in a critical point of the VCA section, believe me INVISIBLE at 10X magnification with proper light. I looked at the sidechain zone for days, probed, unsoldered, measured, resoldered, xrays, roadmap, ICs...
N-O-T-H-I-N-G.
So to any unlucky beginner: clean that damned job with a stiff brush and a solvent without scraping the insulation naturally but with much more power than you think an electronic board should take.
DB