[quote author="jeffrey_burr"]Rossi, thanks, but I think you misunderstood my question. I'll rephrase.
When upgrading these caps, how important is it to have matched pairs of caps, if I want my matched 603s to remain matched?[/quote]
As Flatpicker said, it's not that important. The capsule to fet cap is not critical and actually a bit oversized anyway. 1000 pf is a very safe value, 680pf would probably enough. Those caps don't have to match in two mics, they only have to be large enough.
The two 220n (or bigger) polyester caps are perhaps a bit more critical. 20% tolerance may be a bit much, although I doubt that you would actually hear the difference. You can get 5% caps, if you want to. Those caps form a hi pass, and the bigger those caps are the more the difference in cutoff frequency moves into the low bass frequencies where you can't hear the difference. So at 470n the difference is less important than at 220n.
BTW Those caps never were matched even on a matched pair. What they match is the capsule or perhaps the whole mic, but not the parts inside the mic. I've seen "matched pairs" of chinese electret condensers that hat different electronics inside.