To start with, thanks to all who contributed ! ... this circuit sounds really good !
After some more experimenting, ..So what have we learned today ?
Well, my 12 pos Lorlin switch did not have 12 positions at all, but 6, because there were two rotating contact thingies inside there was always two resisitors selected instead of one wich resulted in a very strange behaviour of my gain switch.
I fixed that by opening the Lorlin switch and remove one of the contact lugs.
But my gain stage was still acting weird..
I put in C3 from the schematic in post #73, so the gain selector connects to ground via a capacitor, only knowing it is there for DC blocking I decided to put a 0.68uF filmcap in...
That resulted in some sort of envelope / tonecontrol thing that you don't want, so I bypassed the cap and it is no longer acting funny.
I will try with a really small capacitor and see how it behaves.
I think the initial "run away" behaviour was caused by a bad connection on the plastic proto board, it's the first time I used one and I allready decided I don't like these things, components sit wobbly and connections can not really be trusted, my initial thought was to just keep the circuit on the proto board but no, components need to be soldered.
That oscillation has not not happened again, also with nothing plugged in at the highest gain setting.
It has got a ton of gain, sounds really good and so far is surprisingly quiet, with everything still sitting on the proto board and the top cover off (no audible noise or hum)
Switching does not result in loud clicks and pops, there's a little bit of a click sometimes when switching but it is not problematic at all, probably not good enough for a commercial high end product.
Don't know if these cheap Lorlin's are make before break, but I had a couple of these in my drawer so I used one.
I'll play around with it some more and transfer the circuit to two little circuit boards, one for the balanced output driver and one for the pre-amp section, so I can easyly swap the circuit if I want to try something else at some point.
I'll post a full schematic including my PSU when finnished, and some audio clips ofcourse.