[quote author="adrianh"]chef
I am late to the game.
Use the MPS430 it is a real good part
that takes very little power.
uChip parts are toys compated to the 430[/quote]
MSP430 I believe you mean.
To my mind a bit of overkill for this app., if you are not already well-versed in its use, but some member of the family will do the job given some heavy-lifting parts external for the relay driving.