That is very dubious. The active stage is designed to operate with P48 permanently engaged. I can't conceive how sumitting it to a lesser voltage would destroy it.
In the particular case of the 212, the input xfmr ensures there is no differential voltage either.
This thread results in the conclusion that the destructive mechanism is shorting powered lines when patching with TT jacks.
So the actual full explanation is that, although the phantom is switched off, there is still a significant resisdual, and that patching the mic should be done only when the voltage is enough discharged to be unharmful.
Indeed, adding a bleeder resistor would make the discharge time more controlled.
Anyway, this is an issue across our entire Vision console, and I'd like to spend the summer modifying all of the mic pres with a proper bleeder resistor. Any idea where the best place to put one might be? I was thinking of putting a large value resistor across the 10µ reservoir cap...
Not the best choice. If you do that, this resistor would constantly draw wasted current.
A 10k resistor would result a discharge time of about 2 seconds for reaching a non-critical voltage (6V), but it would draw 4.8mA.
It is much better to use the until then unused NC pole os the switch to connect to a 10k resistor.
See attachment.