I absolutely agree.[...]The advantage of a referendum is that you are voting for one policy not a party. [...]
Not sure I understand this part. Why is a referendum about what politicians 'have actually done'? A referendum should be about the future path not the past. And a referendum should most definitely not be like giving politicians 'grades' for their past actions/decisions (A: 'Look, haven't I done great for you?' B: 'Sure, darling. Cum 'ere, get y'r slap in the face...). That sounds a bit twisted to me. But maybe I got the whole idea of democracy wrong.- in other words voting about what the politicians have actually done rather than their overall approach to governing the country.
I absolutely disagree.It is the only time the people get to express their feelings about the democratic process as a whole
(1) Feelings/emotions and politics really don't make a good pair.
(2) There are many other and much better ways to express (political) feelings and ideas -- general elections is only one and a rather basic/primitive one.
(3) Referendums are not meant to cast a vote about democratic processes as a whole or even democracy itself.
On a purely emotional level, I do follow the above argument. On an intellectual level, I don't. And on a democratic level I actually feel that the last part especially might be a bit misguided. I do agree though that for some people it might have been an easy -- cos a one-time, little-effort-to-invest and thus highly effective -- way to express at least something.
Personally, I think the entire referendum is and was a farce -- right from its announcement to the way it was campaigned and including the outcome. It was about nothing but feelings, sentiments and most probably even ressentments -- but not about reality-checked policies. It would have been interesting to see what people really 'feel' and 'think' about it all had the campaigning on both sides been more detailled, more fact-informed and speculatively future projective. The outcome might have been the same -- but the entire thing would stand on much firmer ground! Not being British myself, looking from the outside, the Brexit votum seems a purely sentiment-infused decision (much like: 'like potatoes' or 'don't like potatoes' -- no, actually it was more along the lines of 'tomatoes' than 'potatoes'). And that's why I think that it is most definitely not something that will be remembered as a 'highlight' in democracy or democratic processes.