When I use a 39 or 43 or any other close value resistor the meter pegs all the way to the right.
I’m a little buzzed, so do let me know if I’m talking out me rear end.
Are these near-pick resistors from the box right into the breadboard, or actual Ohm readings of resistors you took with the same meter you measured the pot?
Even precision resistors have a tolerance. If you grabbed a perfectly normal pair of of 5% 47R, you could have as low as 44 Ohms and as high as 49 Ohms. Though I don’t think this is your problem, you’ll get back to this so don’t forget,
If you were just trying to trim a stock meter, You should only need one pot, connected as a variable resistor to replace R8. Connect one side of the meter to the pot’s wiper and the other side of the meter to one end of the pot. Leave the other side of the pot disconnected!
On the Abbey Road schematic, the 6BC8/6ES8’s cathode currents balance through the 100ohm cathode balance pot, and their combined current flows through 130R R25 in series with the 34Ohm meter shunt resistor R8. The R25/R8 divider relationship along with the stock 200uA meter resistance provides the right amount of quiescent current for the tubes during no-gain reduction.
To my eyes, you need ≈ 50R from cathode balance pot + 130R + 34R= around 200Ohms in total from cathode to ground to get the TUBE to work right with a 200uA meter.
For a 1mA meter, to still guarantee you’re setting the right amount of current for your TUBES, you need to maintain that same resistance to ground, but scale your divider accordingly to provide an order of magnitude MORE current for your 1mA meter. If you’re only making R8 smaller to get more current, I think you’re also allowing more current through your tube and chasing your tail.
From the wiper of the cathode balance pot, hang your 200R 2W pot’s full resistance to ground, with your 1mA meter hanging off the wiper to ground. Now zero your meter, pull the pot, measure from wiper to cathode end to replace R25 and wiper to ground to replace R8, and select measured resistors from the box until you find ones that work.