Even just touching solder on a daily basis will get you lead poisoning in a few decades. Just ask any typesetter who worked with Linotypes before they went digital. Oh, wait, not too many of those folk are still around.
What's amazing about lead poisoning is that mankind keeps forgetting about it. The Egyptians knew about it, but that knowledge was lost. The Romans re-discovered it, to lose it again.
In Modern times, the British MD who discovered the cause for "Cider disease" was driven to madness, ending up in the insane asylum. His victorian fellow countrymen lived in a nightmare of different poisonous household items, from pigments in wallpaper to adulterated milk, so lead probably wasn't their biggest worry. And the early industrial capitalists certainly didn't care, as buying positive news was routine in those days.
The first plant in the US that leaded fuel had 22 workers. 12 of them ended up in the asylum, as "criminally violent". Most of the others died before the disease made them insane.
The problem with lead isn't that it's so poisonous, it's that once introduced in a system, you can't get it out. It doesn't matter if it's the human system, or an ecological habitat.
The kids from Flint, Mi, will get damages, but they never will get back the brain cells they lost. Some of them will never live to be old, as lead poisoning causes a plethora of other ailments, like anemia or even infertility.
Equisetum (horsetail, snake grass, puzzlegrass) is capable of extracting some heavy metals from the soil, but lead is one of the very slow. Using Equisetum to clean up would take centuries. As long as people drop their old TV in the creek, lead is the number one poison in there.
Admittedly, there seem to be HF transistors that use beryllium, but those are rare and there's very little as it's just the dopant. I'm sceptical that beryllium tweeters really are made from that metal, as it is extremely poisonous. Should be prohibited, IMHO. Then there's cadmium and some others to worry about...