Not to throw a wrench in the system but I have two obersvations;
I really hate the personal cue-mixers. The only people who really get some good use out of them, in my personal experience, are seasoned daily studio musicians.
I've seen the Myteks, and the Hears a ton on my dates, so I have allot of experience with them just as a producer (I'm not an engineer).
If you do a jazz date, or a rock-band date, walk around during a break and hear how completely screwed-up players have adjusted their boxes out of ignorance.
They are confused with them (just something added to make their day more difficult and get in the way of playing), and you get the craziest mixes when you pick up their phones.
Weird things like no piano, the click slamming, one instrument slamming and another inaudible, etc., etc. ,etc.
Not their fault. they just want to play, and you just want to put them in the most comfortable and inspirational space possible to make music without thinking about technology.
I do get the reason for certain personal mixes...the vocalist, the drummer mainly.
For that the hippest thing I've seen in a long time, outside of a scoring stage, was actually a very small semi-pro studio, and they were doing their own version of what was referenced earlier about the scoring stages (and the Hans Zimmer reference!).
They had bought a simple used (Mackie? Behringer? Presonus?) 16 channel analog mixer for maybe $300.00 or less.
They had it at the side of the main console, and it was basically a headphone monitor mixer for the studio cue system.
They set up really nice individual mixes for each band member, and then if someone asked for "more whoever", or "less whatever", they made the adjustment themselves in a couple of seconds.
All of this for a grand total of I'm guessing $350.00.
The studio guys do like the Myteks and such, but my experience there is also those guys never whine about their headphone mixes. They for the most part play great no matter what and don't ever complain (at least the good "A" players).
Not a reason not to try, but I really like the side-console method above as a preference, not a fallback.
Just my two cents.