Agreed, but the grid impedance is supposed to be nearly infinite, except when Miller effect sets in, but with Cag1 at 0.05pF, even with a gain of 100, it does not count.As far as I can tell now, it's the impedance mismatch between the reflected impedance to the secondary and input grid impedance.
You need to understand why the impedance is not correct. It seems it's not only capacitive, but also resistive, since there is attenuation at low and mid frequencies.
Can you drive the input from a known resistance, let's say 50k or 100k and graph the frequency response as well as the attenuation?