This situation only got to my attention today.
It's a really bad and sad thing.
Unfortunately this is not the first time something like this happened in this forum, I know 3 or 4 big situations since I registered in 2008. The last time I remember was a guy that was doing Neve type inductors, he collected all the money from a lot of members and never returned the inductors and disappeared from the forum, not replying to the emails also.
Of course you are not the ones to blame, but please always and always be careful to who you send money here in the forum.
Check if it's a member with a trustworthy past in the forum, check what other's people opinions are, check the number of posts, check the register date, check if he has an history of selling stuff and delivering.
Always and always suspect from someone that has few posts and only posts dedicated to one subject/project and seems to be overly enthusiastic about that one particular thing, it might be an "High" period and the "Low " it's just around the corner.
Some people come here, they do 2 or 3 prototypes and then they think they an have a business, it's a delusional state, they collect money from other people until they realize they dont have the structure, nor the time, nor the patience nor the money to produce larger quantities.
I really miss the times this forum had no businesses...