It was a holiday in the US last week, plus businesses were gearing up for all of the Black Friday stuff, so it’s not surprising that you didn’t hear back from Hairball.
I don’t have an answer for you about substituting a different resistor value there, but you could certainly just order the correct value from Mouser. If you want to avoid the shipping cost (since you’re buying one 10¢ part), see if you have a local electronics store, or barring that, perhaps a computer store that sells parts for arduino.