I trust my ears to a point, but I also know they suck. Science taught me that. But that said, I'll take the pepsi challenge with anyone in a hearing test.
Now excuse me, I have to go play some music through my Fluke meter, since apparently that is a thing.
Perhaps you missed the irony of my Fluke analogy. You may have taken that too literally.
Ears are limited, that's true, but they are the only things we have for listening. In addition, I can't listen through your ears and vice versa. And our hearing changes over time. At 71 I have hearing loss, almost everyone does. But in my 20s I could hear sounds above 20khz.
That said, there are different categories of audio where some characteristics outweigh others. Communication audio ( speech) has limited bandwidth for the purpose of carrying on conversation that's intelligible. You don't need bandwidth of 20 hz to 20 khz for that. More like 300hz-3Khz as was adequate in plain old telephone service (POTS) and you can tolerate 10% THD and still understand the source human speaker.
MP3s are highly digitally compressed which necessarily removes less noticeable information for the sake of of small files size for commercial success. AAC and MP3 are different forms of compression and AAC (Apple) is better sounding to most people. Most people are ok with that.
Hi fidelity means truthful representation of the original event, and there are levels of quality that in some instances are measurable. Some are not measurable but you know when you hear it it sounds exceptionally great or mediocre. The term is used very loosely and there are no Hi Fi police.
Most audio we accept as enjoyable is 99 and 44/100ths percent perfect. That leaves 56/100th that needs work.
I used to have the same attitude about wire until I did some listening tests and found OFC offers better fidelity to my ears. OFC speaker binding posts, are the similar. Pure silver sounds different, etc.
All amplifiers don't sound the same, likewise, speakers, microphones, wire, tubes, transistors etc. And almost everything analogue is microphonic to some degree.
Take a capacitor in series with a power supply 25 volts or more to charge the cap and a suitably sized resistor, 100k to a meg. Hook a scope up across the cap. Now tap the cap with pencil and watch the scope trace bounce. Microphonics!
Now connect a cap, in series with a 4 ohm current limiting resistor to the output of an amplifier and run some square waves to it. Caution the amp need to be stable to do that. Odds are very good at some level and frequency setting you will here the cap vibrate. Sweep the frequency source with sine waves and you'll find acoustic resonances within the range of hearing. Microphonics!
Tap a tube in an amp an you'll hear it at some volume setting.
My point is there are very few perfect components, (if any !), that don't introduce some variation in the signal that wasn't there to start. Depending on the application some are worth dealing with and some are not. There in lies the art of good engineering for the appropriate application.
Audio has only 1 detector of any consequence - ears.