Charlie,
Very nice work.
Regarding the extra switch, you can use it for a input pad (good for high output synth, sampler or line levels as amp slave output), take a look on my tech page http://w1.316.telia.com/~u31617586/ and on the API 312 or 325 DI input modification, you can use same pad circuit for the "1975 DI-box"
To use the second step on the extra switch you can have a -20 dB pad, and this is easy to do because it is same pad circuit as the - 10 dB pad, but you also add a extra 330 kohm resistor after the 2,2 mohm resistor to ground (the junction 2,2 mohm, 18 pF and 10 kohm), and you have a 3 step pad switch with 0, -10 dB and -20 dB.
Your question about the links on the transformers output and connection to the XLR, I must say I don`t understand, because you have don right on the PC-board so I can not see some strange in your circuit design.
Can you explain one more time what you are thinking about ???
--Bo