there is no such thing as "the" frequency response of a microphone. a frequency response is a 2d slice of a 5d response (distance, angle, frequency, amplitude, time). You can match two frequency responses, and that will ensure that if you take two slices in the same circumstances out of each microphone's responses, that will match, but that's it. most modeling mics use models like this.
a frequency response isn't a characteristic of a microphone, it's a measurement of a microphone. that's like saying that a photo of a lake is a characteristic of the lake. as you add more types of measurements that account for more dimensions, you can start to approximate the source closer and closer (also recording sound of the lake increases the feeling of immersion that you are at the lake) but that would be very difficult. in order to add dimensions to the mic sim, you'd need to do some pretty insane things. I can think of a few ways to do this, but I'm not gonna do r&d for free for a stranger.