How are you measuring your capsule voltage? Where exactly are you putting your VM?
You should be able to read your capsule votage at the R3/R5/R6 junction. To be sure your VM isn't loading the circuit, measure across R3 then subtract that from your measured B+. Result should be the same as what you measured across R5. Don't measure to the grid (R4). That should be 0V as virtually no current flows so assume it is and only reference ground.
The front backplate (plus rear backplate in omni & rear diaphragm in fig-8) sees 0V from the junction of the R4 & the grid. The front diaphragm (plus rear diaphragm in omni & rear backplate in fig-8) sees half of your B+ from the junction of R3 & R5. No current flows through R6 so if R3 & R5 are the same value, you get half of your B+. If you want to change the capsule voltage while keeping your B+ at 120V, change the R3/R5 voltage divider.
If you want 60V on your capsule and a B+ of 120, it's probably safe to assume you have 60V on the capsule if you have all the right component values (matching R3/R5). I think you'd hear some audible issues if you had current flowing where it shouldn't in your hi-z section.